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An Email from a Mom/Teacher to her colleagues
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I want to share a little---NO---A HUGE success story with you. I am an elementary school teacher. I have been teaching kids since 1995. I have 2 daughters. K.,
9th grader, is an average student to above average, who could use
Visualizing and Verbalizing®, because she struggles with comprehension.
She is a student who with people telling her she can achieve anything & showing her she can achieve anything will push herself to do so. She will work just as hard as she can for anyone who will believe in her.
But then there is my other daughter A., who is now a 6th grader...this is her story...
After
I had A., she started daycare when she was 2 1/2 weeks old (I had
to go back to work, because I was a single parent and had NO money.)
The daycare she attended used the ABEKA program,
which began at the age of 1 year. She was instructed with the
information of letters, letter sounds, reading, numbers, and
adding/subtracting before she went to elementary school. The program
was amazing...I know...I taught there as a preschool teacher for years.
My students would leave going out of there reading at the age of 4.
However, A's preschool instruction did not help. She didn't learn
her letters, sounds, numbers...SHE STRUGGLED. She has struggled her
entire life with learning!!! Although she has had some AMAZING teachers
and many different great programs, she's always behind by MANY years.
A.
has struggled throughout her early elementary school years. Finally, I
had A. tested in third grade through her elementary
school...basically the results were...'sorry, but this is what it
is...we were told...she fell in that number range that she couldn't
receive services, because of the number her testing results had.' (As
teachers, we have all heard the same thing about students we knew needed
help in some way, that were like A. even more needy than some of
the special ed. students, when we've asked for them to be tested.) I
was told that I should put her in vocational classes when she was older,
because she would NEVER go to college...WOW...talk about a blow at 3rd
grade...I don't have a problem with her attending vocational classes,
but I think that should be a person's choice in what they strive to
accomplish...as a parent one of my on-going struggles that I fight with
now is-...well, the school has basically said to quit trying so quit
killing yourself to push her to do better...to be told that you may as
well give up on educating your child...that I should put more focus on
helping my other daughter, that was one of the hardest things I've ever
had to deal with as a parent. I couldn't say anything at that
moment...I was mad and frustrated and most of all EXTREMELY hurt. I
cried EVERY day for a week...after school, during school, and sorry to
say in front of my students too...not that that is a terrible thing for
them to see us as human too. I took about a week, but went back to express
my feelings to the school. My response was this...I do not nor have
ever had the philosophy that we
should give up on any student no matter how bad they push our buttons or
struggle. I don't have the answers for all of them...especially my own
child. If I ever heard that again I didn't care if it was about my
child or not I would quit, because I don't want to be a part of anything
that doesn't believe that all students can achieve anything that they are willing to strive to accomplish. I
still struggle with pushing A. at times, because of it...but I
KNOW...I BELIEVE...that A. has the potential to do anything she
chooses to do!!!!
One
of the major difficulties A. has always had was that she could not
read, spell, memorize...well. I believe that she's had dyslexia...among
other issues that I did not know about until later. I took her to be
tested in Knoxville after her testing in the school. By the end of the
testing, we spent over $2,000 of our money for 3 tests to try to get
answers. The psychologist said 'she's dyslexic, but her number is too
high for me to put it in the papers probably because how much you've
worked with her, she may have ADD, but her number is on the line, so,
I'm not sure if she has that, she has central auditory processing
disorder, but her number is on the line for that too.' Basically she
told me, that there was not a lot I could take to the school for help, but they may help...and they did with 504 accommodations. She told us that there was a program that would help...AAAHHH...ANGELS SINGING... ANSWERS...Lindamood-Bell. No matter what the problem (dyslexia, ADD, Central Auditory Processing Disorder) Lindamood-Bell
would help! We had depleted our money resources, so there was no way
we could drive to Knoxville 2 or more times a week for 3 hours of
instruction with the psychologist. So, I checked into Lindamood-Bell.
I couldn't afford sending her to their classes, or to even be
trained in the program, or to even buy the materials to do it myself.
Our hopes were sunk again...
Here comes the success story with a little background...A.
had 20 spelling words in 2nd grade that we studied (about 15 hours
-Monday-5 hours, Tuesday-5 hours, Wednesday-3 hours, Thursday-3 hours-
just on studying spelling for one week's words, not including her other
homework), in 3rd grade the new textbook & principal was encouraging
us, as teachers, to make accommodations for any child whether they had
an IEP or
not. So, her studying changed (about 9 hours -Monday-3 hours,
Tuesday-3 hours, Wednesday 1 1/2 hours, Thursday 1 1/2 hours- just on
studying spelling for 8 words, not including her other homework), and
every year since she's had 8 words that take around 9 hours a week to
study. At the beginning of the year she had about 9 hours -Monday-3
hours, Tuesday-3 hours, Wednesday 1 1/2 hours, Thursday 1 1/2 hours-
just on studying spelling for 8 words schedule still, which did not
include her 4 homework assignments for spelling or other homework.
Thank God...this year our school is using Lindamood-Bell
with our students. After A. has been in Lindamood-Bell for the past 3 months
for 1 1/2 hours a day, A. CAN NOW DO THE 4 SPELLING ASSIGNMENTS BY
HERSELF IN THE 1ST 2
NIGHTS AND TAKE 1 SPELLING PRE-TEST WITH ME AT HOME, MISS MAYBE 2
WORDS, LOOK BACK AT THOSE 2 WORDS FOR ABOUT A MINUTE, TAKE THE PRE-TEST
WITH ME ONE MORE TIME GET A 100, AND GO TO SCHOOL AND MAKE A
100!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We only have to study spelling for about 15 minutes once a week. I CANNOT TELL YOU WHAT THAT MEANS TO BOTH OF US.
She's NEVER had any extra time to just be a kid during the school
week...not that she doesn't have other deficits for her to work on other
things, but at least spelling is not anything like it was.
WOW...GOD BLESS OUR PRINCIPAL FOR PUSHING FOR LINDAMOOD-BELL & ESPECIALLY LINDAMOOD-BELL FOR ALL IT'S DOING FOR ALL THE KIDS & PARENTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
~Tiffany S.
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An 11 year old in Group Sessions
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Before my first day at Lindamood-Bell, I was skeptical. I thought
it would be just like any other tutoring I’ve done before and that I
wouldn’t have any fun. I thought I’d have to sit still and
that the tutors wouldn’t be very interactive. But, of course, I was
wrong.
When you first walk in the door you wouldn’t suspect it’s
a tutoring place. You feel like you’re at home. It was much
different than any other tutoring I’ve done because we focused on one
main theme instead of two different subjects. The people at Lindamood-Bell are very
kind, generous, and lovable. You can easily get to know them, especially since
you don’t have only one tutor for your entire time there. The tutors
can also get down to business and be really serious about getting the lesson
done while still making it fun.
Working in a group was a lot of fun because I was able to
make a new friend. This also gave me a partner to talk to during
breaks . My group partner was a sweet friendly person. We could
easily relate to each other, and in a way we were both goofy. It made the
lesson more fun. One example is that we would think of a tune to read our
words out loud together. This sped up our work and helped us concentrate
more, because we had something fun to keep our energy level up. My
partner was also a little bit older than me and set a good example for
me. Being with her reminded me that when she was serious, I knew I had to
be serious too. I couldn’t wait to go to Lindamood-Bell every day and see my
partner. I had something special to look forward to because I knew my friend
would be there and we would have a great time together.
Our group was special – we were the only group at that
time, and we were allowed to make up our own name (which rhymed and fit our
personalities). We were able to concentrate better on our work because we
had our own little room with nice peace and quiet. We got to
decorate our room and move things around to make it comfortable for ourselves. Working
together, we tried to master goals such as getting “100 graduates”,
or mastering a new word, or correcting each other while we were reading. I
think it was more effective in a group because by correcting your partner, you
not only help them, but you help yourself. By both of us trying to get up
to “100 grads”, for example, we were more motivated and more
confident because we were a team. Also it was special because when we
were not taking a turn, we could listen to our partner and get a real feel for
the words, which helped me learn faster. So even when I was resting I was
learning.
Now that I’ve finished the program, school is easier
for me, and I feel like I’m actually understanding what the teacher is
saying and what I’m reading. Also I feel like I’m not the
slowest reader in the class any more. I’ve really achieved my goal
in becoming a better reader. I learned more tricks about how to read and
spell (such as the “C train” and the “G train”).
Though I do not feel like I’m done, I feel more motivated to do even
better with my reading.
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